I know nothing about tennis; however this same sentiment can be found among writers, especially young or inexperienced writers. They see and envy the success of another but don’t question how the writer got there. They don’t see the struggle and rejection they may have endured. Analyzing our opponents at their “now” doesn’t tell the whole story and it definitely shouldn’t impact our current story.
I'm exactly at this point! I've also decided to "go in blind", play the match, then look at the stats afterward. It does take the sting out of losing a third set TB when you find your opponent is rated higher. And it gives encouragement that you are improving, even if the score line doesn't reflect that fact. And if it's the reverse? They had a great day and you'll get them next time!
I know nothing about tennis; however this same sentiment can be found among writers, especially young or inexperienced writers. They see and envy the success of another but don’t question how the writer got there. They don’t see the struggle and rejection they may have endured. Analyzing our opponents at their “now” doesn’t tell the whole story and it definitely shouldn’t impact our current story.
Agreed. In that context can apply to most situations in life.
I'm exactly at this point! I've also decided to "go in blind", play the match, then look at the stats afterward. It does take the sting out of losing a third set TB when you find your opponent is rated higher. And it gives encouragement that you are improving, even if the score line doesn't reflect that fact. And if it's the reverse? They had a great day and you'll get them next time!
Great advice Mike! See you next weekend.
Thanks, hope we get a rematch!